i found out why my 17 year old sister likes to pick on me (i’m 12, and her constant aggression has caused tension between us). i was looking at her journal when she was at a swim meet, and this is what she wrote:
“i like to fight. it makes me feel better about myself”. sure, it makes her feel good. but it makes me feel like she doesn’t love me; she is such a hurtful sister.
